Some Extra Insights
Pappa was
quite liberal when it came to womens issues. Motaba wanted the ladies
to have “Laaj” or to cover their heads, but after Motaba passed
away the “Bahus” could talk to Pappa and did not have to cover
their heads. All the women learnt how to drive, but it was up to them
how much they used this skill!
Ba and Pappa were
very devoted to each other and other than business trips Pappa never went
anywhere without Ba and visa versa. When Pappa was 60 he decided that
he did not want to work full time any more so he became semi-retired.
For a long time he would go to the office for a couple hours a day, wherever
he was.
Ba and Pappa were
very fond of Hindi films. They went regularly, mainly to the Drive-in
on Sunday and Monday evenings taking interested grandchildren with them.
When Pappa and Ba came to Kampala in 1972, Pappa insisted that Ajay and
I should accompany them to see “Anand”. That was a time when
we were not very interested in Hindi films! Later on when cinemas were
in decline in the age of videos, Ba and Pappa watched videos at home.
In his younger days, Pappa must have gone with Adda to see Natak and then
progressed to silent movies and later the Talkies and the motion pictures
of today.
In his younger days
Papa played cricket – he was a good bowler. Later he played Bridge
at Navnat but never with money. His mode of dress was always a white suit
(but no tie, he had worn them for long enough when working at the Bank).
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